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Please get in touch. Take action now to heal whatever stops you from having a more loving relationship. Break the patterns that do not give you what you want. I wrote the book, did it myself and it works. Book 5 sessions to engage in a course to heal old stuff and awaken your ability to love and be loved.

mamasonga@loverslikeus.net

Katiushka Borges (aka) Mamasonga has been practising Tibetan Buddhism since 1982. She has developed her own method based on communication strategies and interactive art installations to improve communication in relationships.

MamaSonga is a qualified Love Coach with over 25 years of experience.

She has been trained and qualified as a coach by The Coaches Institute, certified as NLP Master Practitioner (INLPTA), Society of NLP, Vivation® Practitioner, Hypnotherapist, Clean Language, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), Time Line Therapy, Deep Democracy (Blue Belt), Tibetan Pulsing, and Shamanic healing with Northern Drum.

Mamasonga has inspired and supported thousands of people to improve their work / life and love/balance relationships. She regularly gives presentations and lectures and workshops for couples.

She gives private consultations in person and via Skype to coach and heal individuals and couples, by giving sessions in both 121 and 122 situations. Ask The Oracle!

WORKSHOPS FOR COUPLES - TALLERES PARA PAREJAS

El próximo taller JUEGOS DE AMOR Y SANACIÓN PARA PAREJAS tendrá lugar en el Spa Corphus Menti, el Sábado 18 de Noviembre 2011, en Caracas, Venezuela. Sólo para 11 parejas. Ven a participar y disfruta de ese tiempo  para comunicar y reir más juntos.
En un espacio rodeado de jardines al estilo colonial. JUEGOS DE AMOR es algo único. No es terapia. Es ARTE SANADOR EN NOMBRE DEL AMOR! Para más información pregúntale a mamasonga@loverslikeus.net

SOLO PARA MUJERES: TALLER PARA CONSEGUIR PAREJA Y RECUPERAR TU PODER FEMENINO: 12 de Noviembre de 2011. Charla GRATIS el Viernes 11 de Diciembre de 6 a 8 pm. En Spa Corphus Menti-Hacienda La Trinidad, Caracas. PARA MAS INFORMACION ENVIA EMAIL A mamasonga@loverslikeus.net

Next Games 2 Love workshops will be on Saturday 18th of November 2011, at Corphus Menti, Health Spa, in Caracas Venezuela. And Friday 2nd and Saturday 3rd of December at Casa Mejillón, in Margarita Island. For only 11 couples! Come and enjoy being together and having a laugh. In a beautiful colonial surroundings, Games 2 Love is what you have been looking for. It is not a therapy. It is healing art in the name of love.

UNICO TALLER EN LA ISLA DE MARGARITA.
DATE ESE REGALO DE AMOR Y TIEMPO SOLOS PARA RECONQUISTAR LA PASION EN TU CORAZON. Para
más información, envía un email a

mamasonga@loverslikeus.net




WORKSHOPS FOR SECONDARY SCHOOLS

We design a special wokshop for schools on preferred communication styles of communication and interactivity, the importante of friendship as one of the 4 ingredients of a successful relationship, the power of metaphor and the meaning of love.
The results of the workshops can be seen on this link:
www.wooloo.org/open-call/entry/206781



 

 

I am obsessed with my boyfriend. Can you help?


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"I think I am totally and utterly obsessed with my boyfriend. His past, his present, how we met ( he was married and we had an affair- now we are together "official"). The fact he had so many affairs before he met me. I am particularly obsessed with a girl he had an affair with 2 month before he met me.
She was 20 and he was 47 and I have become completely and utterly obsessed.
Were they in love?
What was the sex like?
How was it different to our affair? etc etc etc.

It has not been helped by the fact they have kept in constant contact throughout our relationship, meeting secretly and texting and calling all the time. I have lost my home for this man, lost a child, lost many friends as a result of their disapproval of him. All of this has left me extremely insecure and rather damaged. Last week I checked his phone to discover he had met his former lover secretly. Again. He says I'm over-reacting when I get upset. I don't want him to have any contact with this girl- I feel I've been through enough. It is seeping into every area of my life and almost making me ill. The drain on my mental energy is phenomenal. Am I being unreasonable for me to want him to stop contact with this girl?

I am writing to you in confidence. Feeling rather distressed and alone. I still believe my boyfriend and I have a great love between us; yet the trust is shot to pieces, incredibly bruised and battered. I'm trying all the time to make things better, but I feel it is very one sided.
Do you think this love can survive? Be healed?
How does one stop over thinking in love? Over worrying, over compensating? Any confidential, private advice would be so very appreciated. lovelya"


Mama Songa replies:

"Here is some advice that might help you understand your situation as there is not a simple formula or a straight answer and you know it.
We tend to perceive what we project into others. Friendship, intimacy, fun and attraction are the key ingredients for a successful relationship. Love develops step by step, not by someone fitting exactly with what one wants. There might be a pattern in your situation, and the way your boyfriend behaves in relationships, that tends to repeat itself. He was with his wife and having affairs. Your boyfriend left his wife to be with you, even if he had other affairs. Now he is 'officially' with you, and you suspect he is having an affair. We cannot expect others to change to accommodate our needs. The only person you can change is yourself. This sounds easy, however difficult to accept because the responsibility is again in our hands and not in someone else’s. You think you are 'totally and utterly obsessed with your boyfriend and particularly obsessed with a girl he had an affair with 2 month before he met you'.
Obsession: an idea or feeling that completely occupies the mind. The state of being obsessed by somebody or something that becomes persistent and uncontrollable. You still believe...'my boyfriend and I have a great love between us; yet the trust is shot to pieces, incredibly bruised and battered'.
A- If 'the trust is shot to pieces, incredibly bruised and battered', what does 'great love between us' feel like or look like to you?
B- Write a list of 5 qualities you like in your partner 1 2 3 4 5 C- Write a list of 5 qualities you do not like in your partner 1 2 3 4 5 I suggest you pass these (B and C) questions to him, by cutting and pasting them in a word document or email them to him, so you can find a way to talk about your feelings, likes and dislikes, and be able to heal the relationship (if that is what is needed to see the way forward).

IMPORTANT Create a conversational space where you both can have an honest chat about what would you like to have happen in your relationship and what you both really want by exchanging and discussing your answers. When you speak from your heart there is another heart open to listen. Hope this helps. Let me know how it goes. MamaSonga"

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